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To all of my fellow teenagers
I am a 15 year old girl. I have never had sex or had a boyfirend.  I am not writing this comment to show how much of a "good saint" I am.  I simply just wanted to let all of my fellow teenagers know that I understand that it is hard to stay on the right path.  I do not know how it feels to go through each and every problem that you go through.  I don't know how it feels to be pregnant or having sex at a young age.  I don't know.  What I'm really trying to say is please whatever you do KEEP YOUR HEADS UP!!! I know that it mey seem impossible, but you gotta stick through it.  My fellow teengers, you are all worth more than the most rarest of gems and precious of pearls, no matter what type of background you come from, no matter what school you go to, what race or color, or what kind of home you come from.  My goal though this message is to encourage someone, boy or girl.  You are not a statistic.  Don't let what someone else says affect you.  And I leave you with this last statement.  THE CREAM ALWAYS RISES TO THE TOP, and as we  being teenagers, the next generation, my fellow teenagers, especially my Duval teenagers, we are the cream.  We are above and not beneath.  God bless you all!!!
Posted By: 904girL - Wednesday, July 2nd 2008 @ 2:00pm
to alexeyanna
Im a 15 year old boy. And the only I think about is not sex. Not all boys are like that, just because of what the majority does doesn't mean you can expect all boys to be like that. I'm focused on doing something with my life, and of course sex is a part of it, but I focus on my future first. What I'm trying to say is you'll never get anywhere always believing the stereotypes of what the majority of people do.
Posted By: A.J.E. - Monday, June 30th 2008 @ 5:52pm
whats wroug with female
well what i thing whats wroug with female is there just dum is f**k and they just need to pray more so there mines   can get right and well 4 me i keep my mine i the lord hand t-roy and every mother f**king woman should do that and pray pray pray on the lord  and t-roy i would like to be on the radio with you when prettyricky come down agin and you call me and let me no..
Posted By: lil ms kay kay - Thursday, June 19th 2008 @ 1:30pm
What is wrong with yall females today....
     Why are yall not using condoms...So many of yall are on here getting pregnant talking about having abortion.Having a baby is a blessing.There is so many of yall young and older women everyday killing so many babies.If you know you are not ready and messing around  on your lover then use condoms or birth control...So you don't have to kill a true blessing...There are alot of women that can't even have a baby that want them so bad and use other ways to get pregnant but its doesn't work out have you ever thought about giving it up to people who want babies. Hello do the right things.
Posted By: leah - Tuesday, June 17th 2008 @ 11:48am
Ok- i see that jacksonville have some problems
if you are pregnant by anybody other than you husband you are wrong and you need to think hard and long about the situation you are in because you have just F**K UP you life for now
Posted By: Olivia Nelson - Friday, June 13th 2008 @ 4:32pm
TO MS 23
WHY WOULD U SLEEPOMEONE U JUST MEETING. THAT IS SO NASTY AND THEN WITH NO CONDOMS, PLEASE BABY I'M 22 AND I COULDNT THINK OF MEETING SOMEONE IN A CLUB AND GOING HOME TO MESS AROUND. GET TESTED U NEVER NOW HOPE U DO THE RIGHT THING KEEP IT JUST DONT TELL CAUSE U WILL BE IN PRISION.
Posted By: SEXYBLACK - Friday, June 13th 2008 @ 4:26pm
Today's World
Okay everytime I come on here.. why are the secrets only based on sex and people who cheat? Why can't it be something that some people who are regualr realate to? I mean people younger than 18 having kids? This world has gone crazy. On top of that they are shacking up with older men? Older men should be with older people. Younger people should be with younger people and not have sex until marriage. I mean come on people! You should know how to control yourself shouldn't you? I know yall might think I'm hatin' or just bein' mean but I'm tryin to tell it straight okay? If you're not old enough to get married and take care of yourself and others WELL then don't have sex... So please think about your future and how having sex at an early age and getting pregnant is gonna effect you. Don't do anything your gonna regret..... FOREALZ....
Posted By: berrigurl - Thursday, June 12th 2008 @ 9:34pm
To the 23 yr old pregnant by the 15 yr old...and other ppl
First of all, how u not gone know he was 15? I never seen no 15 yr old look 6 yrs older than his age!

And yall other ppl, stop having sex until ur married. And if u r married, make sure u only having sex with ur husband or ur wife!

And if it's husband and husband or wife and wife for u, that means ur gay. So for the h***s, plz change ur life around as soon as possible, cuz God is not plzd with ur actions.

For all of u underaged ppl having sex or only had it once, yall need some prayer. If u ended up pregnant doing this, u need much more than that! U need a miracle. All I have 2 say is don't abort it. Set it up 4 adoption, let it have a family...The Bible says we're not supposed to kill one another.

So the best thing for yall to do is wait. If u can't wait, then use protection. If u can't use protection, know that u could be risking ur life for AIDs or some other STD. So be careful, PLZ!
Posted By: Chloe - Wednesday, June 11th 2008 @ 11:44pm
A Response To "Happy and Sick"
  • If you think your pregnant the smart thing to do is take a pregnancy test. Go buy one from Target, Wal-Mart, I think Winn-Dixie, and Wal-Greens I think. If your pregant take a deep breath and pray about it. Make sure your able to take care of the baby.
  •  The smart thing to do is NEVER sleep with the fan on!!! lol It's happened this to me before.
  • IF YOU LIKE WHAT i'M SAYIN PEOPLE'S TELL ME!!!!!!!
Posted By: berrigurl - Wednesday, June 11th 2008 @ 8:35pm
A Response To
  • That's kinda sad that you would even mess with him at a gentleman's club. Now being 23 means you can make your own choses and hope there're right. But your's was just STUPID!!! Now I know how you're gonna feel or already feel.... What am I gonna tell my family? My friends? everyone else? Well I see your're regretting it now aren't you? Listen honey: I'm younger than  you okay and I'm given you some advice? I have no kids of my own but I'm helping raise some and it's not gonna be easy. When you "think" someone is a certain age: THEY MOST LIKELY AREN'T!!!! okay? That's your fauly for even  putting that into your head okay? It's both of yall's fault because you both fell for it. You both are played. He's gonna be played when the baby comes and you're gonna be played more when he doesn't want anything to do with the baby. I know all about this and to me tell the people that are close to you the truth and tell others that are just noisy that it was your boyfriend okay? The people that are close to you will understand hopefully..
Posted By: berrigurl - Wednesday, June 11th 2008 @ 8:32pm
Why
Look everyone makes mistakes and why are you judgeing people on here when you cant even spell right i have been through alot in jax thats one of the main reasons i left jax but my life is so much better now that im out of jax i wish everyone luck and happiness god bless and take care of urself u dont need a man for anything keep ya head up
Posted By: anonymous - Wednesday, June 11th 2008 @ 6:02pm
happy and sick
i am happy and sick and i had sex last week and i don't  know if iam pregent.or sick because i sleep wit my fan on .somebody pleas tell.
Posted By: anonymous - Monday, June 9th 2008 @ 3:50pm
Im Sorry

okay i am 23 years old and i am pregant by a young male that is 15. i know it was wrong but when he entered an adult club i thought i thought he was over 21. i say that it is his falut for misleadin me.what do you think about it please post comment ...i need help

Posted By: preganet by yougins - Thursday, June 5th 2008 @ 2:24pm
mother law

If you was with a lady for 4 years and helping her and her 4 kids out and give her $2000 a month for bills for 4 years but her kids talk back to me and she dont do nothing about it but when she see me get on her kiss ass she want to take up for they ass but iam a real ass nigga that do real thing so i feel like if they can talk back to me where i pay bills i feel like i can do what ever i want to do and thats thats dont i have the right to hate some one who talk about me behind my back her mother ask her grannkids about me if i help they mother pay bills yes i do pay bills you can not stay no where for free but i feel like she want to no do i pay bills dont you think she need to call me and ask me her self if i pay bills then i ask my old lady to say something to her mother about why she be talking about me behind my back she say she not going to stay nothing to her at all because she dont want her mother to dis on her grannkids because all the thing they came back and told me what the granmother was saying about me behind my back i cut her ass off i dont fuck with her at all i dont say nothing to her i dont see her i dont give a dam about her if she die to day i can care lest because if i am with a lady and i give my lady $1000 are what ever i want to give her for bills ant thats my dam business i am 37 year i feel like if i want get her lil gurl money from her i can if i want to look at me and look at her then look at my ex that stay in ATL she a dime so yes iam a good looking men othere lady tell me that i look good if i look good  i just look good that how i see it a lot of peoples told me her mother want some of me thats why she talk about me my old lady is 43 year old so can you late  her mother no to keep it real befor i say something i dont want to say about her S.L.D.  its a part #2 come soon about S.L.D.she under cover freaking and doing things she say she dont do S.L.D. is a freak for life...............S.L.D. she 20 year old freak that all i can say about her for now...

Posted By: anonymous - Sunday, June 1st 2008 @ 10:42am
SILLY OF ME RIGHT?
 YALL TELL ME? IM SIXTEEN AND THE BOY IM MADLY IN LOVE WITH IS EIGHTTEEN HIS NAME IS JAMAL AND BASICALLY HE HAS NOTHING TO OFFER ME OTHER THEN SEX LIKE MOST BOYS RIGHT? BUT ANYWAYS WE BEEN TALKING FOR MONTHS NOW AND NOTHING SEEMS TO be WORKING AND MYSPACE MAKES MATTERS WORSE EVERYTIME I GO ON HIS PAGE THERE'S ANOTHER GIRL POSTING COMMENTS WITH PICTURES WIT' THEM TOGETHER I KNOW HE TALKS TO OTHER GIRLSAND POSSBLE SLEPTS WIT THEM BUT YOU TELL ME  AM I EXTREMELY STUPID FOR NOT APPROACHING HIM ABOUT THE MATTER? I CRY ALL THE TIME BUT THE REALITY IS THAT IM AFRAID OF LOSING HIM SO I DONT BOTHER HIM WITH THE SITUATION SHOULD I SAY SOMETHING OR WHAT? IM IN LOVE W/J.D.H
Posted By: Jamal-sideline - Friday, May 30th 2008 @ 8:15pm
what should i do?
Whats up world this your ne-ne. i’m 18 years old with a baby. my child is only 2 years and don’t know who her father is. i was only 15 years old when I got pregnant. One the dude’s is 27 years old the other is 20 years old. i don’t know what to do or how to tell him. Please let me know what to do.
Posted By: anonymous - Friday, May 30th 2008 @ 3:22pm
TO DA 15 YEAR OLD AT LEE
BABY HOW U GON SAY UR BOYFRIEND WAS DA ONLY BOY U SLEPT WIT BUT I THOUGHT U SAID U GOT RAPED 3 TIMES SEE U LIL KIDS ON HERE LYING AND SHIT BOUT YALL LIFE AND SHIT  BABY U NEEDS TO PLAYING WIT URSELF AND PRACTICE UR LIE BEFORE U TELL IT CUZ  
Posted By: - Sunday, May 25th 2008 @ 12:32am
1 thing they want

 

Just to let everybody know that boys only want 1 thing and you is real stupid to give it to him they don’t really cares about you and they go back and brag to their friends about how they had you and the next thing you know his friends and goom squad is trying to come on to you that’s stupid know more and stay in school  
Posted By: alexeyanna - Thursday, May 22nd 2008 @ 12:37pm
The Real Picture
I have been reading the posted comments, and it seems as though the mentality of us youth is very low and distorted.  I say that because all that's being discussed is sex.  Life is so much more than sex, dwelling on the past, and being involved in immoral situations.  Instead of us being a stereotype, let's be a prototype.  Let's make a difference within ourselves, as well as in our community.  If you have made mistakes in the past, you can change your future.  Lemons can be made into lemonade!    The only person that can change you is YOU!  It is never too late to turn you life around for the better.  Yes, life has it's ups and downs, but they can be easily handled by us making the right decisions.  Being very selective as to who we associate ourselves with can eliminate ALOT of life's problems.  Surround yourself around positive people who are going places in life, and that motivate and encourage you.  Raise you level of thinking, and your way of life will improve more and more.  Set short term and long term goals for yourself to keep track of self improvements.  Helping our community, surprisingly, can help us to be better as a people as well.  Volunteering at your local non-profit organizations can help the communtiy a great deal!  I wish each and everyone of you the best in your new endeavours!  The journey WILL NOT be easy, but with persistence, patience, and keeping your focus on the "big picture", YOU CAN DO IT!!    
Posted By: anonymous - Wednesday, May 21st 2008 @ 12:09pm
everybody dumb

YALL SO DUMB HAVING SEX AT UNDER AGE

Posted By: ♥»Mz.BUBBLEGUM«♥ - Monday, May 19th 2008 @ 11:51pm
Oh Someting I Forgot
                Just to let you all kno I am a 14 year young lady in the 9th grade and I attend Stanton College Prep High School and most of you females are older than me or in the same grade level. With age comes wisedom, so please use what you have learned(i don't mean have sex). One more thing to all the feamles that have been told that you all only good for laying on your back, do me a favor and prove WHO EVER told you that wrong because that is the BEST AND SWEETEST revenge a person can get! 

                                 Keep In Touch!
Posted By: Ms.DaniD - Saturday, May 17th 2008 @ 11:31am
Someone Has Sense

               Thank you Bria, you are one of the only girls on this website who has ever spoke the truth about these types of problems. I applaude you for having the strength to make such a bold comment and you are so right. The government doesn't care about this county and by the looks of the stories I've read the African American Community doesn't care much about it either. If we did, than we wouldn't have half the drama in our lives like we do now. To all the females out there who has troubles and problems in their life just keep your head up, pray and talk to God, and just leave the rest you to Him and because we can not achieve anything without Him in our life. NOW as a unitied African American Community we need to wrap it you. Do you all not read the newspaper and even if you don't I know everyone of you get on the internet. Read about what's happening in your area(commuinty) please educate yourself because if you knew anything than you would know that Aids/HIV is one of the #1 killers in the African American Community. I'm not trying to same that you all don't know anything but please just read into something please you never know what you will find.

Posted By: Ms,DaniD - Saturday, May 17th 2008 @ 11:12am
This dont Make No Sense!

I am 15 and i attend robert e lee. With all of the stuff thats going on it makes no sense at all. I didnt realize that so many people had so many sex problems. But YOU put your selves in these situations and only you can get out of it. When i was six years old i was raped for 2 years. Then when i was twelve i raped. And my momz boyfriend tells me that i aint going to be nuthin. And that all i was good for was layin on my back and making babies. He made a bet with me, he said that i wolud have a baby by the age of 15. And i havent been preganent yet. I set my goals and i am going to make them happen. Im not a virgin and i am having sex, i go to therapy for me being raped so much and i am addicted to sex. But i aint stupid, i Have a boyfriend we have been together for 2 years. he is the only boy i have ever had sex with. I get tested once a month i dont have any diasease and i make sure he gets tested too. my mom knows everything about, and she still loves me.  

Posted By: FeeFee - Thursday, May 15th 2008 @ 8:06am
Too Everyone

To the 17 yr old girl: You are doing the right thing by leaving this married man alone. If the shoe was on the other foot you wouldn't want it to happen to you. YOU GOT TO PRAY!!!!!!!!


Now this girl who was sleeping with her blood cousin. THAT IS NASTY AS HELL. But both of you should have known better.Now you got to do what you got to do. 
   

Lee take off: You are crazy as hell to sleep with all them boyz. But you have to have respect for yourself for them to respect you.you realy need to get your life togethere.Cause whats goes around comes around.



               "ALL OF YOU NEED SOME JESUS IN UR LIFE" 

Posted By: Enchantress - Wednesday, May 14th 2008 @ 2:13pm
TO: IM IN LOVE
I CAN TELL U YOUNG. THAT WAS SOOOOOOO DUMB. NOW DAT GIRL GONE PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE OF YO RATCHET AZZ. SO SO SO SO SO SO S IMMANTURE
Posted By: mz. luvLEE - Wednesday, May 14th 2008 @ 2:03pm
to: am i a hoe
YES!!!!!!! U ARE THAT MAN IS TAKIN CARE OF THE KIDS THAT AIN'T EVEN HIS AND YOU SLEEPING WITH OTHER MEN THAT'S NASTY AND DIS HONEST. YOU NEED TO STOP AND CHOOSE WHICH PATH YOU WANT TO GO ON.
Posted By: mz. luvLEE - Wednesday, May 14th 2008 @ 1:59pm
ME ALEXEYANNA H.
HAY THIS IS ALEXEYANNA AND I AM ON  HERE TO LET EVERYONE KNOW THAT IAM HAVING AN BOY AND AN GIRL IAM SO HAPPY AND MY 5TH YEAR ANNIVERSERY ID 2DAY IAM HAPPY
Posted By: ALEXEYANNA - Wednesday, May 14th 2008 @ 12:00pm
Thanks Toni
Thanks for the advice. Kicked her azz to the curb a few weeks ago.Realized that she needs me I don't need her. She calls me crying and all the b/s that goes with it. She pregent with another mans baby and the  thug left as soon as she told him. It was like a yoke was lifted off my neck when I told her I did'nt feel her anymore. I've been dating a new girl but she won"t let me come to her place and chill with her. She keeps telling me that her crib is in a bad hood. She lives in Eurka gardens. Mind u I ain"t afried of shit but is this place as bad as she tells me?
Posted By: white knight - Wednesday, May 14th 2008 @ 10:41am
Come on Duval
first off,im 15 and im reading all of these comments and by the looks of them..sex is the main problem!!!with all these pregnacies and diseases thats out..sex should be the last thing on yall mind..yall need to worry about getting an education because the comments show that half of yall can't even spell little first grade words.the government already see most black people,especially in duval county as nothing but drop outs and future drug heads or prostitutes,and i personally feel that we are proving them to be right!!!School is very serious,now that the government is all messed up and they aren't trying to give anybody no good help..so all im saying as a black teen,is that we as teens need to focus on the main/important parts of life..like surviving and making something of our life now,to better the future!!!

also,
T~Roy,i think it would be benefitial if your show allowed a teen talk show host an hour a day to come on your show and discuss teens issues..
and i would be glad to host the show..
and i could answer questions and have discussions to help teens express their feelings and issues.
so that maybe we could get teens on the right track..and so that parents and other adults can gain an understanding of them!!!
Because your show reaches a lot of people and this is the kind of platform we could use to give some serious help and make some serious changes.
So if you are interested please contact me at my e~mail!!!
thank you.

   P.S.We teens need help,especially in duval county
Posted By: bria - Friday, May 9th 2008 @ 6:02pm
to mz. audacious

you are right boys will temper you to have sex with them and yes they do only want 1 thing thats why i wated. and yes ilil mama everything will be alright keep your head up and be strong..... love alexis

Posted By: alexeyanna - Friday, May 9th 2008 @ 7:11am
HIV+
i just found out that i am HIV+ a few days ago but my so call girlfriend doesn't know this because i also found out that has been seening other people behind my back now that i have infected her she has infected other people at her job now she tries to give me the same stupid excuses that she gives those guys she was to meet with another guy but she keep giving some dumb ass excuse and he keeps falling for it i thought that i should put a stop to it but i am know playa hater so if a person wants to cheat on their lady friend/babymomma/wife who i am to stop them but i feel bad for the other person that does not deserve it when the department of health let's them know that it a must that they get tested it is goning to be a painful feeling i know because that have contacted me
Posted By: DUVAL WAKE UP - Thursday, May 8th 2008 @ 4:37am
lee take off!

well i know u want to all know what happened to me! i had a miscarriage after the one i was in love with beat my ass! i told him everything about what i did, and he told me the onlyt thing i was ever going to be good for was laying on my back. i felt so bad like my life had to end. i got kicked out of my mommaz house. i then when i told him i am hiv positive he went and got tested. he found out that he was positive too, he told me that it was over and he never wanted to see me again. i stopped having sex for a long time but then i meet this boy in school and he was so sweet, he told me things i never heard, like he told me i was beautiful, and a couple of weeks later, we slept together with out me not telling him i was hiv positive, because in the end all he wanted was a piece of ass from me and after we had sex he left me. and to this day, i still havent told him i have hiv. im sorry but there are somethings i cant change and if i could i would go back to the beginning of it all. i wish i never went to lee and let them boost me head up into sleeping with them.

I'LL STAY IN TOUCH !

Posted By: diamond - Wednesday, May 7th 2008 @ 7:43am
THIS IS TO DA GURL WHO IS PREGNANT BY MARRIED MAN
FIRST OFF LUL MAMA..HOW ARE U DOIN? I KNO U  PROBABLY STRESSED AND FEELING DOWN BECUZ YOU GOT ALL THE PRESSURE WEIGHING DOWN ON YOU RIGHT NOW. BUT I AM HERE TO TELL YOU THAT EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALL RIGHT. WE MAY DO THINGS THAT WE LATER REGRET BUT TRUST ME GOD DON'T MAKE NO MISTAKES. I MEAN, YEAH YOU FORNICATED WITH A MARRIED MAN BUT ONCE YOU REPENT AND TURN FROM THOSE WAYS, THEN YOU ARE FORGIVEN. I COMMEND YOU FOR GETTING ON HERE AND TELLING US YOUR STORY..OBVIOUSLY YOU HAD NO WHERE TO TURN. BUT I HOPE YOU LEARN FROM THIS MISTAKE AND MOVE ONE. LIFE IS ABOUT LESSONS BEING LEARNED..SO LET THIS LESSON BE  A MILESTONE IN YOUR LIFE. ME PERSONALLY, I AM 18 YEARS OLD AND STILL A VIRGIN. DON'T GET ME WRONG I GET TEMPTED SOMETIMES, BUT I MAKE BOUNDARIES AND STANDARDS. BECUZ WHEN A MAN SEES YOU FOR THE 1ST TIME ..HE AUTOMATICALLY KNOWS WUT HE WANTS FROM YOU. THIS IS WHERE YOU ASK YOURSELF WUT DOES THIS MAN HAS TO OFFER YOU. BEING THAT YOU'RE 17 YOUR FOCUS SHOULDN'T BE AN OLDER MAN..BECUZ THEY ARE SEXUALLY ACTIVE AND WILL PERSUADE YOU TO  BE IF YOU ARENT. YOU ARE A QUEEN AND SHOULDNT DEMAND NO OTHER TREATMENT BESIDES THAT. YOU WAS RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX, NOW YOU SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE TO TAKE CARE OF THIS CHILD. MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE THE BEST MOTHER YOU CAN BE. DONT LET THIS CHILD SUFFER BECAUSE OF YOU FEELINGS OF BEING ASHAMED.  LIFE DOES GO ON AND IF HE DOESN'T MAN UP, THEN YOU MUST CONTIUE TO BE A MOTHER. AND WHEN THE NEXT MAN COMES ALONG TAKE TIME TO KNOW HIM..BELIEVE ME PATIENCE IS A VIRTUTE. AND IF THAT MAN, IS PATIENT THEN LET HIM GO.. YOU DONT NEED HIM. I WANT YOU TO KNO DAT THOUGH EVERYTHING IS IN CIRCLES FOR YOU...ILOVE YOU IN CHRIST. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND BELIVE ME KARMA DOES COMES BACK AROUND. tHIS MARRIED MAN WILL FIND A POINT IN HIS LIFE WHERE HE HAS TO ANSWER TO GOD. BUT TO THE OTHER WOMEN OUT THERE....:  WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE? ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE FOR WHAT THIS YOUNG LADY HAS DONE..NOT YOU!!!
Posted By: mz. audacious - Sunday, May 4th 2008 @ 2:15pm
To the 17 yr. Old who keep asking for Advice


You keep asking for advice and when people are giving you their advice you get upset.  You are the one who posted your business on line so you need to step up and take what ever coming at you.  I don't understand if he's the Father, why are you waiting to tell him he have a right to know so you can give him a chance to step up to the plate and take care of his responabilites. 

You want advice but youneed to take it and act on it what have you done to better your situation?  You haven't even done the first thing by telling the other party, have you told your parents you need some kind of support giving BIRTH ain't no joke Baby, 
I been down that road 3 times and I take GOD for Both my parents,
husband and other relatives who were in the delivery room this is something you need help on so sollow your pride and ask for help it's alot you need to know about Birthing a chid.  Are you even getting Prenatal Care it's not the child fought it's time for you to step up and be a young Mother and just deal with what ever comes your way. 

Why would you still want to sleep with him?  Is it because you don't think you can get any one else?  What part haven't you got yet he's Taken, has he left his Wife? If he really Loves you he would make that decision but he see you haven't put that on LOCK YET and you keep letting him come back so he's gonna play you like a YOYO

The only thing I can say is don't you and your child be a statsic to the government grow up and don't chase behind no Man cause they gonna do what the Fuck they want to but you can choose what someone does to you and your child Motherhood is the best thing in Life wait until the Nurse pass you YOUR baby you will then know it was worth the fight!!!!

 Stay Strong and  Good Luck.................  Real Talk

Posted By: Real Talk - Sunday, May 4th 2008 @ 1:29pm
Dang!!!!

duval gettin crazier every day...

Posted By: anonymous - Sunday, May 4th 2008 @ 1:20am
Freaked my best friends fiancee

man that shit is nasty i cannot believe that you have dont that to your best friend that shit there isnt even cute at all and no i am not jealious of you or no one else but i suare to god if that was my husband 1 of us aint going to be on earth man thats some shit there and for all of my ladies and mens never leave your man or girlfriend with an female or man even if you think that they wont cheat because anyone can play a game right but you just have to keep the scores tight do yall get what i am saying. Thats why i dotn trust my husband around no danm female and pregnancy is not a good thing hell i have been pregnant 5 times and this is my 6th time and i am having twins its not good and its a lot of responsibility okay everybody let me getr to college and on school grounds be on here later

Posted By: alexeyanna - Thursday, May 1st 2008 @ 12:35pm
863 young stanna

if u get wit yalls best friends love and she wants to be wit u and u get wit her then both of yall dumb as hell thats all

Posted By: james w - Wednesday, April 30th 2008 @ 12:02pm
about me
Man I have been living the teenage life man I am 14 years old and I am 1 month pregnant and I don’t know what to do I want to be like my sister  and wait until I am 6 months and she got pregnant at the age of 14 and my mama did tot and now I eat a lot and my stomach is very huge you can look at my stomach and you would have second thoughts but I need somebody’s advice but by the way he is 16 years old and my mother and father knows him and he knows because we went to the clinic together to get an test and it says that we are negative of all the diseases so then I decided to get an pregnancy test and it came out positive and my family doesn’t believes in abortions
He is happy but he already has an 2 month son and we knew each other all of our lives and we have been dating for 9 months now and we only had sex once and now I am pregnant…

Posted By: lexus - Wednesday, April 30th 2008 @ 11:27am
someone and their cousin
i think that is very nasty wit your BLOOD cousin but the thing that  makes  it worse is that u are or might be pregant
Posted By: FeLiCia - Tuesday, April 29th 2008 @ 10:13pm
ease up
all yall out here tryna bash dis gurl. yall already know how ------s is. damn he probably anint even tell lil momma he was married. too u lil momma follow da best way fa da life of u and ur git. people gone talk about u no matta wat it could be good or bad. when u feel a hata hatin smile and said u know wat i like dat \.my quote to make it throug da day is dey talked about jesus and he turned out just fine
Posted By: u betta put da o in front of my g - Tuesday, April 29th 2008 @ 4:49pm
Freaked my best friends fiancee
Ok I'm an 18 yr old white girl and I used to have a best friend that is puerto rican...she is beautiful I mean gorgeous...Well she had a dude dat she was seein for 6 yrs and she even took a case for him and did jail time. I started callin him and one thing led to anotha we ended up f***in. She found out but still tried to maintain a relationship wit us both. I lied and told her and him that I am pregnant wit his kid and now she left him and he is with me. I see how miserable he is without her and i dont know what to do..Im not pregnant. and she dont want anything to do with us. I figure how beautiful and successful she is at 21 she can find anotha man quick...right?? I dont feel guilty, should I?? Thats my girl and I love her but what should i do to not lose my man??? Help me out??
Posted By: white trash - Tuesday, April 29th 2008 @ 10:11am
MYRTLE AV GOON

WAT TO DO WEN SOMEONE U KNOW HAS GONE TO THE GRAVE R.I.P DEJUAN

Posted By: MIKESA FAIRBANKS - Monday, April 28th 2008 @ 1:39pm
AM I A HOE

YOU NEED TO STOP YOU IS DOING ALL THIS WHLE THAT MAN IS AT WORK YOU MESSING AROUND I HAVE BEEN PREGNANT IN HELL I AM PREGNANT NOW AND I GET MY FAT ASS UP AND GOT TO SCHOOL IN THE MORNINGH AND STAY WITH THE CHILDREN IN THE EVENING AND GO BACK TO WORK AT NIGHT EVERYDAY MONDAY- FRIDAY YOU COULDN’T PAY ME TO LAY DOWN WITH ANYBODY OKAY HIT ME UP LATER

Posted By: ALEXEYANNA - Monday, April 28th 2008 @ 12:00pm
Too Young and In Love

WHEN I WAS YOU I WAS JUST LIKE YOU I WAS 14 AND HE WAS 16 AND THEN COME TO FIND OUT I WAS 2MONTHS PREGNANT AND NO I DIDN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO BUT YOU NEED TO GO TO CHURCH AND PRAY FOR FORGIVENESS BECAUSE SOMSE TIMES A BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND REALTIONSHIP CAN TURN OUT TO BE WAY WORST BUT YOU NEED TO DO AND TALK TO SOMEBODY WHO YOU TRULY TRUST

Posted By: ALEXEYANNA - Monday, April 28th 2008 @ 11:49am
She's A Very Freaky Girl
You think that is cute to have sexy with more than 35 men I am not trying to be Maury here but hay how do you know that you don’t have anything baby because condoms do break and you can catch many diseases. My Auntie works at Atlanta’s State Clinic and she deals with people like you everyday and the results is not cute man you made your self look like and straight up hoe
Posted By: ALEXEYANNA - Monday, April 28th 2008 @ 11:46am
The girl that’s pregnant by the married man

Man I am not trying to come down on you like that but hay it is wrong and I have an husband and 3 kids and I am 4 months pregnant now and my doctor said that I might be having twins but if he would have cheated on me and got another lady pregnant I would personally kill his ass because that’s wrong not just on her but him to because if he didn’t tell you or had an ring on his finger how would you know or find out and yes if he is man enough to lay down he can take care because if I was his wife I would get mad at him and not you and my husband is an Lawyer baby yes we would be getting divorced if that would have happened to me but by the way I am 21 and I don’t want you to feel like everyone is coming down on you because we really is not we are just trying to make things better but you need to tell him and have a personal talk with his wife about this situation and if you need more help you can just hit me up on MySpace (email)(Alexeyanna h) my lil sis made my page I just get on it I don’t change anything

 

Posted By: ALEXEYANNA - Monday, April 28th 2008 @ 11:41am
TO THE 17 YEAR OLD WHO IS PREGNANT BY A MARRIED MAN

I DON'T AGREE WITH THESE OTHER PEOPLE, HE IS THE ONE WHO IS MARRIED.  HE AND HE ALONE MESSED UP HIS MARRIAGE. I HAVE BEEN WITH A MARRIED MAN FOR 2 YEARS. I'M NOT SAYING IT'S RIGHT BUT HE'S THE ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS ACTIONS. JUST LIKE YOU, I LEAVE HIM ALONE AND HE COMES RIGHT BACK.  HE HAS THE RING ON HIS FINGER SO HE NEEDS TO BE A MAN AND BE FAITHFUL. YOU TOOK PART IN IT BUT YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME. I SAY HAVE YOUR CHILD AND RAISE IT. IF HIS MARRIAGE FAILS, IT'S BECAUSE OF HIM. HE SHOULD HAVE NEVER TOOK HIS VOWS IF HE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT THEY MEANT.

Posted By: TREAT - Sunday, April 27th 2008 @ 3:18pm
shoulda known better
dats nasty because u known dat dat was yo cousin so basically u was in da wrong cause all u had 2 say was no when he asked u 2 have sex with him.so now u stuck and dont know wat 2 do cause dis man done got u pregnant.
Posted By: anonymous - Saturday, April 26th 2008 @ 7:40pm
To the "WOMEN(and I use that loosely)" who bash the 17yr old.
I have a question for all of you so called women who are downing this young lady.

 WHY do YOU see it as HER FAULT and WHY do YOU see HER as HOME WRECKER? (Okay, so it's two so what)

    Like it has been stated before HE was the one who walked down the aisle a stood in front of GOD (or someone who was a representation of) and took the vows of commitment not her.  HE has the obligations to HIS FAMILY not her, even if SHE did know about HIS FAMILY it's on him not to fall into temptation not hers, SHE"S A FREE UNATTACHED WOMAN.  Also, HE approached HER to get the conversation going.

     If, I was the wife I would not have HATE for HER but for HIM, being t hat HE is the one putting MY LIFE in jeopardy and my CHILDREN'S.  I would have a problem with her being that she found out that HE had a FAMILY and CONTINUED to SLEEP WITH HIM.  I would have to do soul searching just on the grounds that HE had sex with HER unprotected(and most likely came home the same night and had sex with the wife), then on the FACT of her being PREGNANT with HIS CHILD!  As, naturally expected I would DEMAND a PATERNITY TEST ASAP, when the baby is born. 

    Being that I'm not like the rest of you so called women.  I would make sure that that child and my children knew each other so that they did not end up together in the long run down the line and also that baby would need something stable in it's life.  BUT, everything would go through me and he would have no contact with her anymore, I WOULD.

    As so called WOMEN you should look at this young lady like she is you or your sister or someone dear to you not like she is the woman who took your man or is sleeping with your man as we speak(right now, which is where all the anger comes from).  Give sound advice and help her correct her mistake that has brought her a blessing  (even if he doesn't want anything to do with it, it's his lost; how many of you "women" baby daddies are in your children lives and you weren't in this situation?). 

    So, to that young LADY,  I do wish you all the best in your new journey of adulthood and motherhood and please do LEARN from this mistake that has happened in YOUR LIFE(remember that, that this is your life and no one else's).  This may be a minor detour of your plans but do NOT let it STOP YOU.  BE DETERMINED to BETTER YOURSELF for YOU and YOUR CHILD.  Look to GOD when you can't seem to go on anymore or raising that baby seems to be more than you can handle.  When that BLESSING does arrive cherish every moment with it and watch closely at it's characteristics(you're going to be so amazed).  Also, please I do ask that as soon as you can LEAVE Jacksonville, and go somewhere else so that this child will not be apart of the downfall and closed mindedness of Jacksonville.

   GOD BLESS & TAKE CARE of YOU & YOURS!!!

 Daria B.

Posted By: Something Like a BIg Sister or Mentor - Wednesday, April 23rd 2008 @ 4:12pm
LATINAMAMI

NOONE HAS ROOM TO TALK EVERYONE IS NOT PERFECT BUT TO THE SHORTY THATS 17 THAT MESSED WITH A MARRIED MAN MAMA IF HE HAS HIS OWN FAMILY HES NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIS FAMILY AND YOU DONT WANT TO PUT YOUR CHILD THREW THAT MESS YOU BOTH MESSED UP I DONT SUGESSED ABORTION BUT IT WILL BE THE RIGHT THING FOR YOU. SO YOU DON'T STUGGLE TAKING CAER OF A CHILD AND ITS BEST FOR YOU SO YOU CAN LIVE A LIFE WITH OUT A CHILD AND ENJOY BEING A TEEN ITS NOT YOUR TIME TO HAVE A BABY ITS TIME FOR YOU TO FINISH SCHOOL AND GO OFF TO COLLEGE AND PARTY AND NOT BE LIKE THESE OTHER FAST ASS GIRLS RUNNING AROUND LIKE THEY WAS RAISED ON THE STREETS AND HAD NO MANNERS AND NO LIFE AND RUN AROUND WITH ALL THESE DAMN BABYS AND DIFFERNT BABY DADDYS. GIRL DO WHAT YOU GOT TO DO LEAVE THAT MAN ALONE AND LIVE YOU LIFE ASS A TEEN.

Posted By: JENIVEAH - Tuesday, April 22nd 2008 @ 12:38pm
THIS IS THE 17 YEAR OLD THATS PREGNANT BY A MARRIED MAN!!!!
WELL, I SEE EVERYONE'S OPINION ON MY SITUATION AND I KINDA UNDERSTAND AND AGREE WITH SOME PEOPLE ON MY SITUATION.BUT I HAVE A FEW THINGS TO VERIFY I KNOW IM WRONG FOR WHAT I'VE DONE BUT HE'S NOT TO GOOD HIMSELF I HEAR EVERYONE ON HERE FAULTING ME ABOUT THE SITUATION EXCEPT ONE PERSON AND I THANK U FOR NOT DOWNING ME LIKE EVERYONE ELSE BUT I DIDN'T TAKE ANY VOWS HE DID SO HE'S NOT TO GOOD HIMSELF AND I HEAR PEOPLE CALLING ME A HOE AND SHIT BUT ALL I GOT TO SAY IS IM NOT A HOE I'VE TRIED TO LEAVE THIS MAN ALONE BUT HE'LL POPUP AT MY JOB AND S*** SO ITS NOT ME CAUSE HE DONT LOVE HER TOO MUCH HES CHEATING ON HER BUT I LOOK AT IT LIKE THIS I WANT TO GET MARRIED ONE DAY AND I KNOW I DONT WANT MY HUSBAND TO BE CHEATING ON ME SO IM GOING TO TRY AND LEAVE HIM ALONE AND AS THEY SAY WAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND..........BUT NOW WE HAVE A FAMILY TOGETHER BECAUSE I'VE THOUGHT ABOUT IT IM NOT GOING TO GET REED OF MY CHILD JUST TO SAVE HIS FAMILY BECAUSE IT LOOKS LIKE HE WASN'T TRYING TO KEEP HIS FAMILY BY SLEEPING WIT ME BUT I KNO IM NOT GOING TO HAVE AN RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM EVEN IF HE LEAVE HIS WIFE FOR ME OR HIS WIFE LEAVE HIM....................WHY????????????? BECAUSE IF HE CAN DO IT TO HER HE'LL DO IT TO ME.......AND HE DOESN'T KNO IM PREGNANT YET BECAUSE I DONT KNO HOW TO TELL HIM BUT I KNO IT WILL SOON COME OUT AND I AINT MAD AT THOSE WHO DOWNGRADED ME BECAUSE I GUESS THAT WAS YALL OPINION ON MY SITUATION BUT I RESPECT THAT BECAUSE IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND ILL KILL HIM AND HER AND THATS REALTALK...................................SO FOR THE UPDATE IM TRYING TO LEAVE HIM ALONE YALL BUT SOMETHING KEEP HOLDING ME BACK TELLING ME I NEED HIM IN MY LIFE......................................BUT I KNO THE BEST THING FOR ME TO DO IS LEAVE HIM ALONE BUT ITS LIKE HES SUPPOSED TO BE APART OF ME AND IM JUST TELLING YOU HOW I FEEL ........................................................................ AND FOR ALL YOU PEOPLE THAT THINK THIS IS NOT A REAL COMMENT THIS IS TRUE IM NOT JUST WASTING MY TIME WRITING THIS SHIT I CAN BE DOING OTHER SHIT BUT THIS IS NOT A JOKE THIS IS SOME REAL SHIT IM TALING BOUT AND I NEED HELP SO IM ASKING DUVAL SHIT THE WHOLE DAMN FLORIDA FOR HELP ON MY SITUATION SO EASY E,TE-ROY DEJAVU,STEVE HARVEY HELL WHOEVER GET THIS MESSAGE MAN COMMENT ON THIS CAUSE I NEED YALL HELP TOO...................................................................... AND TO THE PEOPLE THAT TRY TO HURT ME AND DOWNGRADE ME PLEASE BELIEVE ME ITS NOT GONNA TO WORK BECAUSE I TAKE SHIT AND DONT LET IT HURT ME IT HELPS ME SO I AINT MAD AT YA BUT I REALLY DONT WANT TO HEAR THE BULLSHIT BUT YOU CAN STILL COMMENT MY STORY BEACUSE I WOULD LIKE YOUR OPINION ON MY STORY .......................................................................
Posted By: anonymous - Friday, April 18th 2008 @ 11:45pm
to the 17 year old girl thats messing aroung with the 25 year old man...

YOU IS WRONG YOU ARE WRONG AND YOU AFRE GOING TO MESS UP THAT MANS RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOU IS IN LOVE WHAT IS HE GOING TO GO AND TELL HIS WIFE THAT YOU WAS A ONE NIGHT STAND. I FEEL THAT YOU SHOULD GET AN ABORTION BECAUSE YOU IS GOING TO MESS UP HIS MARRIGE AND FAMILY JUST BECAUSE YALL WAS HAVING SEX AND COULD'T KEEP YOUR PANTS UP/ ON YOU AND THAT MAN NEEDS TO MOVE ON WITH YALL LIVES AND LEAVE EACH OTHER ALONE BECAUSE IF THAT WAS TO HAPPEN TO MY HUSBAND/ BABY DADDY I WOULD HAVE KILLED HIS ASS AND HE WOULDN'T BE IN NOBODY DANM LIVES BUT HAY ITS YOUR DECISION AND YOU IS THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN DETATE IF YOU WANT TO HAVE YOUR BABY OR NOT BUT I AM JUST TELLING YOU WHATS GOOD FOR YOU BOTH TRUST ME MY MAMA IS AN PHYSCHIATRIST  AND SHE DEALS WITH THESE TYPE OF SITUATIONS.
Posted By: ALEXEYANNA - Friday, April 18th 2008 @ 12:39pm
Shoulda Known Better

Me and my cousin had been chillen alot like on a bestfriend level!one nite he came to over to chill,he tryed me one thing lead to another we ended up havvin sex.It continue to happen regulary after that!I told he him it wasn't right but he didn't want to stop,well now i just found out that i'am 1month pregnant from my cousin and i don't know what to do!Help me!

Posted By: Juicey - Wednesday, April 16th 2008 @ 2:08pm
MY BABY DADDY
ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAVE BEEN KNOWING EACH OTHER FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS WE'VE HAD SEX SEVERAL TIMES NOW HE GOT 6 MONTHS IN A PROGRAM AND I'M PREGNANT WHAT SHOULD I DO
Posted By: anonymous - Wednesday, April 16th 2008 @ 12:50pm
WHAT WERE YALL THINKIN
DAMN WHAT CAN I SAY BOTH ARE WRONG BUT BY THE MAN BEING MARRIED I THINK HE SHOLUD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT HIS FAMILY FIRST BUT IN THIS CASE   HE THOGHT WIT SOMETHING ELSE. AS FOR HER DAMN UR FUCKED IN DA GAME CAUSE U AINT NO GOOD DES DAYS AN U GOTTA BE SMARTER.
Posted By: Dat - Tuesday, April 15th 2008 @ 8:06pm
DA TAKE OFF AT LEE HIGH SCHOOL
FIRST OFF IM GON LET YOU KNOW DAT U WAS DEAD WRONG FOR EVEN TAKING YOUR BEHIND TO THE BOY HOUSE KNOWING YOUR  BUTT SHOULD HAVE BEEN IN SCHOOL AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK IM FINNNA GO AND F*** AROUND AND HAVE SEX WITH 15 BOYS AND AINT NO BODY GON KNO?


IF ONE HAD SEX WITH YOU DEY GON TELL DEY HOME BOY THEN THAT ONE TELL THAT ONE AND DATS Y U BEEN WITH 15 .HONESTLY FROM A YOUNG LADI POINT OF VIEW MAN THAT AINT EVEN CUTE, THAT NOW YOU GOT YOURSELF EXPOSE TO THESE YOUNG MEN AND YOU DUN GOT SOMETHING AND THEY PROB'LY DONT EVEN KNOW IT JUST PASSING IT ALONG.   THIS AIDS S*** AINT NO JOKE AND YOU JUST WILLING TO F*** ANYTHING DAT WHISPER SUM CUTE S*** IN YOUR EAR



ALL I GOT TO SAY IF YOU DONT STAND FOR SOMETHING YOU'LL FALL FOR ANYTHING BOO AND IT'S NOT TO PICK ON YOU IT'S JUST NOT RIGHT AND FOR YOU TO NOT USE A CONDOM....AND YOU KNO IF HE WANTED TO HAVE SEX AND WAS FEENIN U KNO DEEZE OTHA NIGGAS GON WANT SUM TO.DAT SHYT AINT RIGHT LIL MAMA YOU NEED TO LET YOUR MOM KNOW BOUT DAT HOT GURL SHIT, BECAUSE IF YOU DONT STOP IT ....IT JUST GON PASS ALONG AND DAT IS NOT RIGHT LIL MAMA
Posted By: JASMYNE - Tuesday, April 15th 2008 @ 4:26pm
TO THE ONE WHO IS MESSING AROUND WITH A "MARRIED" MAN...
LIL MAMA YOU SHOULD FEEL REALLY LOW ABOUT YOURSELF FOR, FIRST OF ALL, MESSING AROUND WITH A MARRIED MAN WITH "TWO" KIDS AND ALSO MESSING AROUND WITH SOMEONE WHO IS THAT MUCH OLDER THAN YOU. WHAT WERE YOU THINKING??? DID YOU THINK HE REALLY WANTED ANYTHING FROM YOU OTHER THAN WHATS BETWEEN YOUR LEGS? YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME! FRIENDS? YEAH RIGHT! HE KNEW YOU WERE YOUNG AND WOULD BE DUMB ENOUGH TO FALL FOR WHATEVER YOU FELL FOR. ITS FEMALES LIKE YOU THAT MAKE A BAD NAME FOR THE REST OF US.

ABOUT THE BABY... DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT HE WANT TO HAVE A BABY WITH SOMEONE WHO COULD BARELY TAKE CARE OF HERSELF? I DONT FEEL LIKE ABORTION IS A GOOD THING BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU NEED TO REALIZE WHAT YOU'RE REALLY GETTING YOURSELF INTO IF YOU DO HAVE THIS BABY. FOR ONE HE MIGHT NOT EVEN WANT TO BE APART OF THE BABY'S LIFE, THINKING IT COULD DESTROY HIS OWN FAMILY, FOR TWO HE PROBABLY DONT WNAT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU!

IF YOU THINK THAT CONTINUING TO CARRY ON THIS "AFFAIR", THEN YOU DONT HAVE ANY SELF-RESPECT AND YOU BE DESERVING WHATEVER HAPPENS IF EVERYTHING IS EXPOSED.
I HOPE THAT YOU MAKE THE RIGHT AND SMART CHOICE FOR YOURSELF AND THIS BABY!
Posted By: kandy k - Sunday, April 13th 2008 @ 11:48pm
IM JUST BEING ME,DUH!!!!!!!!!!
ALL YALL ASS IS CRAZY,I MEAN YALL SLEEPIN WITH FAMILY MEMBERS AND YOU GOT SOME DATS YOUNG AND PREGANANT ALL I CANREALLY SAY IS ALL YALL CRAZY AS HELL,DATS ALL..!!!
Posted By: tasha 4rm flag - Friday, April 11th 2008 @ 9:15pm
hell nawl
hell nawl that is the nastiest thing that u can do and that is not right  but if the person was your bestfriend then they wouldn't do that to you.
Posted By: mizz hottie - Friday, April 11th 2008 @ 8:10am
comment to the 17yr.old
I notice everyone is jumping on the 17 yr. old but how many of you looked at the 25yr. old. Yeah she was wrong for what she did. And at 17 she should be getting ready for her senior year and fun. Not towards no baby. They are both to blame. But she's not the one who made a committment. She didnt stand before someone and repeat vowels. She didnt committ adultry. Everybody has done things before that they cant brag about. Just because you didnt caught dont make you no better. And to ms. drama queen the str8 truth. How dumb do you sound jumping on a 17 yr. old while yo have two kids. If anything if it wuz you, you should be mad at your husband for doing something that dumb and being a child mulester. You so busy trying to label this gurl. But i aint hear you tell nobody to watch they kids around him. What can you get out of a 17yr. old she just turned old enough to get a job. All Im saying is yeah they both wrong. But you cant point the finger at just one person. It takes 2. I honestly cant tell you what to do but if you decide to have the child than one day eventually the truth gone have to come out. Just take care of yourself for now. And ms. drama queen it seems like you thats all you bout. To be honest the comment you let wasnt even needed. You trying to come down on a 17yr. old I hope your life perfect and you have no regrets. For you to call people out of their name the way you did. The girl was just asking for help not for you to criticze her and say what you would have done..
Posted By: MS. NAY - Thursday, April 10th 2008 @ 11:00pm
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

OK I'M 21 AND I MEET THIS BOY TALKING TO HIM FOR A WHILE. GETTING CLOSER TO EACH OTHER AND WE FINALLY MESSED AROUND. FEELING ARE THERE AND I FOUND OUT HE WAS MARRIED WITH KIDS. I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD STOP TALKING TO HIM OR KEEP DOING MY THING. BUT HE STATED THEY ARE GETTING A DIVORCE WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Posted By: PROBLEM - Thursday, April 10th 2008 @ 1:26pm
YES u do have a PROBLEM

You should be a shame of your self you will miss him when he is gone.

Posted By: shay - Wednesday, April 9th 2008 @ 9:29am
oh so STUPID and PATHETIC
Gurl why must you sleep with that many people im also in the    9th grade and im still a virgin you dont have to open your legs to every boy you see and when they call you a take off its not that they gave you the name you gave yourself that name do you  plan on getting married? if you do your stuff gone be draggin to the ground pickin up stuff and he will not want anything to do with you.Teen gurls these days are just so desperate i think you need to go to the clinic and get checked out cause aint no telling what you aint got.More than 15 boys what the hell is wrong with you.
Posted By: shay - Wednesday, April 9th 2008 @ 9:27am
both of u r crazy

both of you are crazy if you were suppose to be friends then the wife was suppose to know about this also so im thinking that yall already knew what was gone go down if you knew that he was married then you should have been asking when am i going to meet your wife but you didnt both of you already had in yall minds that yall was gone be messin round with eachother now you pregnant and if he leave you and deny your baby and that he never seen you before then thats gone be your fault cause you aint have no business messing with no married man at no 17 years old you made yourself look stupid im 15 and know better than that damn girl get some since in your head think before you make any actions and plus if any one of you were really friends neither one of yall would have let it get that far in the first place

Posted By: shay - Wednesday, April 9th 2008 @ 9:15am
DUVAL

All Yall Crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted By: 2Cute4Dis - Tuesday, April 8th 2008 @ 11:30am
white guy
Hey she treat like sh**because you let her treat you like sh**. Rule number one when dating a BLACK girl you can not change a hoe into a house wife and two why would you. I do not care how HOT!!! she may be.
Posted By: Toni - Monday, April 7th 2008 @ 2:32pm
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU

This comment is for the 17 year old female who's sleeping with a married man!!!!!

First of all you're 17 years old it's alot of other things you should have on your mind LIKE school,College, Job! Not sleeping with a man that's 8 years older than you and one with a family. Do you think he wants you NO have you ever heard "You can't turn a whore into a House Wife". To him you're just a piece of Ass that's easy access.  Have you ever read your Bible and turned to the"Ten Commandments".

Secondly, what if you where Married would you want some whore"which you are" sleeping with your husband? You have to think about it do you want to be a home wrecker better yet, set yourself short in life and settle for someone else seconds.  Believe me he's still sleeping with his wife and going home to her every night or home to another woman besides you.  I can't put the blame on you because it takes two to tangle and he is dead ass wrong but you could of avoided your situation now deal with it.  Have you talked to your parents about it and by you having this baby what does it do to your future plans? Do you have someone to help support your decision.

Maybe I can give you alittle advice I got pregnant at age 19 my first summer mini term in College scared of what my parents would think I thought I could keep it a secret so I went 5 months until I just couldn't hide it but I didn't want to let myself down or my parents so I stayed in school and had my son two days before school was out on spring break, I got a job to support us and stayed in SCHOOL FULL-TIME until I got my BA-in Allied Health Management and I kept a fulltime job regardless of what my son father did because you are going to be fully respondable for that baby you can't make him step up to the plate and be a Father!!!  Even if Childsupport can't fully take care a child it take 2 incomes and if your baby will make the third one you do the math he's not clocking that much. It's time for you to do what's best for YOU, THE BABY, AND HIS OTHER FAMILY Trust me he married her for a reason and you're too young for all that drama.   
Posted By: REAL TALK - Saturday, April 5th 2008 @ 10:45am
WHAT IN DA HELL IS WRONG WITH U
A RESPONSE TO THE YOUNG LADY WHO IS 17 AND MESSING WITH A MARRIED MAN!!!!


WHY WILL U MESS UP SOMEONE RELATIONSHIP AND THEY HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS AND HAVE 2 KIDS TOGETHER NOW U THINK ABOUT THIS IF U WAS MARRIED U WOULDN'T WANT YOUR HUSBAND CHEATING ON YOU WOULD YOU.AND NOW YOU REALLY MESSED UP THERE FAMILY BECAUSE U ARE PREGNANT BY HIM BABY U NEED TO THINK FIRST OF ALL IF U KNEW HE WAS MARRIED WHY WILL U HAVE SEX WITH HIM AND U NOW PREGNANT THATS JUST ALOT OF DRAMA U NEED TO GO TO SO KIND OF COUNSLING CAUSE U DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU DONE GOT YOUR SELF INTO  BECAUSE I AIN'T EVEN BOUT TO LIE  IF I WAS HIS WIFE AND I FOUND OUT ANY THING OR ANY KIND OF CLUE I'M SORRY I GOT TO SAY I WOULD WOOP UR ASS CAUSE THAT'S WRONG AND IT AIN'T LIKE U DIDN'T KNO HE WAS MARRIED HAVE DA BABY AND GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION DON'T ABORT IT CAUSE THAT'S A SIN BUT U REALLY NEED SOME HELP 17 AND FREAKIN MARRIED MENS BABY GET SOME HELP!!BUT U CAN HIT ME UP AT da_straight_truth08@yahoo.com AND I GET BACK AT CHA CAUSE I'M NOT SCARED TO TELL U DATS U DUMB ASS FUCK LIL MAMA I JUST WISH IT WAS ME CAUSE I WOULD HAVE WHOOPED UR ASS DUMB LIL HOES DESE DAYS I DON'T KNO WAT TO SAY BOUT YALL KIDS!!!!





SO YALL LADIES ALREADY KNO GRAB UR MANS WHEN U SEE A 17 YR OLD GIRL CAUSE SHE GONE GET HIM LOL I WISH U WOULD I BEAT DA BRAKES OFF YA LIL MAMA LIKE U WAS MY CHILD DO UR MOMMA KNOW DAT U ARE FREAKIN MARRIED MENS AT UR AGE
Posted By: DRAMA QUEEN DA STRAIGHT TRUTH - Friday, April 4th 2008 @ 3:04pm
NEED TO PRAY!!!
WHAT IS GOING ON IN SOCIETY TODAY?? WE JUST NEED TO PRAY FOR A CHANGE!!!!
Posted By: IT\'S TIME 4 A CHANGE - Wednesday, April 2nd 2008 @ 10:56pm
What are you THINKIN?
To the 17 year old "HE'S MARRIED I'M PREGNANT WHAT SHOULD I DO?".

#1 Why did you have sex with a married man?
 
#2 Why were you even hangin with a married man 8 years older than you?

#3 Do you really lack morals SO much that you think that it would be alright to continue a relationship with him?

#4 There are other options than abortion...there is adoption (or would that cut into your sex life and be too inconvient?)

#5 He doesn't care for you. Don't destroy this family (with TWO kids) cause you both couldn't keep your pants on.

#6 Stop being so selfish and please talk to someone.

And I have to say, I agree with REAL TALK. We as Black Women should treat ourselves and others with the respect we (and they) deserve and stop sellin ourselves short for peanuts. We need to go somewhere in life and become something. We should go to school, become educated, and empower other black women. For real.  
Posted By: Advice Queen - Monday, March 31st 2008 @ 1:58pm
HE'S MARRIED I'M PREGNANT WHAT SHOULD I DO?

TO START OFF I AM 17 YRS OLD AND I BEEN TALKIN TO A 25 YR OLD WHO HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 4 YRS WITH 2 KIDS AND WE HAVE BEEN TALKIN FOR 3 MONTHS  AND WE BEEN HAVING SEX FOR DA PAST MONTH AND I'M PREGNANT BY HIM SO I DON'T KNO IF I SHOULD KEEP DA BABY OR ABORT IT AND I'M REALLY STARTING TO CATCH FEELINGS FOR HIM BUT BEFORE WE GOT TOGETHER WE WERE ONLY GOING TO BE FRIENDS AND WE THOUGHT IT WOULDN'T GO THIS FAR WHAT DO U THINK I SHOULD DO? TELL HIS WIFE AND PUT HIM ON BLAST,OR ABORT THE BABY AND ACT LIKE NOTHING EVER HAPPENED.DO U THINK I'M WRONG IF I CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM.

Posted By: anonymous - Saturday, March 29th 2008 @ 5:12am
SSSSSoooooooooooo CONFUSED

WELL I AM IN LOVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND BUT WE ARE RECENTLY GOING THROUGH SOME PROBLEMS. I TOOK A LATE NIGHT TRIP WTIH THIS BOY THAT I LIKE. WE TOOK A RIDE AND HE SHOWED ME HOW TO DO SOMETHINGS. WELL WEN WE GOT BACK TO HIS HOUSE WE HAD SEX. BUT THE NEXT DAY MEY BOYFRIEND SAY THE HICKIES THAT MY NEW LOVER HAD LEFT. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND BUT I LIKE MY NEW BOO I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO. MY NEW BOO WANTS TO SPEND MONEY ON ME AN D TREAT ME RIGHT. BUT MY BOYFRIEAND IS REALLY SWEET. IM SO CONFUSED WAT SHOULD I DO.

Posted By: s0 C0NfUs3d - Tuesday, March 25th 2008 @ 3:53pm
Women
 I read every entry on line and the sadiest part about it, is everyone thinks it's a game but it's not if you love your life respect it and the lives of others we often forget that as human beings. Why have unprotected sex and take the risk of getting a disease that one can't cure and one that you have to live with the rest of your life it's not only a painful death, it's a sad death. We as African Americans, such take more pride in ourselves because look at our background and look at what we are trying to accomplish we could have one of us in the "WhiteHouse" something people would of never dream of years ago we fought for everything we have today and why do such foolish things. Think of the pro's and con's before you take action and if the bad out weights the good why do it? Why take a chance of your life?
Posted By: REAL TALK - Sunday, March 23rd 2008 @ 12:35pm
Dont Understand

I'm white and the girl I've be being with for the last to years is black. I don't understand what she is about. I give her everything money, car, rent etc I do all the right things a guy should do but she told me she want's to be a hoe not a housewife, she hangs around thug guys  and strippers and I'm at a lost. We haven't had sex for three months and she keeps making up excuses. But dam she's so hot.

Posted By: White Knight - Thursday, March 20th 2008 @ 4:19pm
he's 21
well im 16 and my man is 21 and i dont know how to tell my moms but also hes been tryen to presure me to have sex with him i dont want to but i love him and i dont want him to leave me what should i do
Posted By: sleepy15 - Thursday, March 20th 2008 @ 11:44am
RED!!!!
IM 17 YEARS OLD AND IM PREGNANT BY MY BOYFRIENDS BROTHA WAT SHOULD I DO?
Posted By: anonymous - Wednesday, March 19th 2008 @ 10:41am
HoT LiKE FiRE
It's the bomb, really it's the bomb, Itwill make you leave home.
Posted By: KeKe - Friday, March 14th 2008 @ 5:52pm
take off for robert e lee high school
 so this is what happened, im in the 9th grade, and i have been with over15 boyz at my school! right now im in a relationship and im in love with him! but one day i wanted to have sex so bad so i went across the railroad to this boys friends house and all of his friends ran a train on me! now i am pregnant, and i dont know who the babyz daddy is, and i am hiv positive! im thinking about getting an abortion so that the baby wont come out with hiv! i need help bad! im feel like killing myself!!!!!!!!!
Posted By: diamond - Tuesday, March 11th 2008 @ 12:38pm
I do them all.
Well im a 23 y/o female, i have 3 kids, and a babay daddy. we've been togather 3 years, and have a 1 y/old togather. We've been going through some things, and one day i decided to talk to his cousin about our problems. there very close. We were talkin and, one thing lead to another and we had sex. Now 3 weeks after that i was chillin with his sister. We were drinking, and smoking having fun. We passed out, when I woke up the next morning we were naked in the bed.  Now after all this my baby daddy just proposed to me on my birthday. and i dont know how to tell him, or should I.  YOU BE THE JUDGE!
Posted By: dont need to know - Monday, March 10th 2008 @ 4:38pm
I didn't mean to
im 17 years old and i met dis boy on myspace and he live in gainsville and we met on the internet i requsted him az a friend and he requested me than he ask me when we are goin to meet up so i gave him my address and then he came to jacksonville and i told him to meet me at a ribault game than after the game i rode with him so he can drop me home but i told him i waznt ready to go home yet so we rented a hotel room and we talk 4 hours and one thang led 2 another now im hiv positive and 2weeks pregnent
Posted By: Annoymous - Friday, March 7th 2008 @ 4:32pm
gosh ! i regreted it !

OK SO... IM GONNA MAKE THIS SHORT.. I HAVE A COUSIN WHO HAD LIVED WITH US FOR MONTHS AND MONTHS OR SO BECAUSE HE NEEDED TO GET TO THE MILITARY. HE HAD KISSED ME THAT 1 TIME WE WAS BOTH DRUNK. AND AFTER THAT DAY WE HAD SEX LIKE MANY TIMES, PRACTICALLY EVERYDAY AND NIGHT WHEN MY PARENTS ARE HOME OR ASLEEP. AND NOW IT'S BOTHERING ME COZ I THINK MY PARENTS HAD FIND OUT! AND THEY ARE ALL THROWING IT ON MY FACE ! I DONT KNOW WHY I DID IT... SEX JUST FEELS SO GOOD THAT I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE I REALLY AM DOING MY BLOOD COUSIN !!  OMG ! IT KILLS ME !! =/

Posted By: anonymous - Wednesday, March 5th 2008 @ 6:39pm
MY BEST FRIEND BABY DADDY!
MY YOUNGEST SONS FATHER IS ALSO MY BEST FRIENDS DAUGHTERS FATHER. OUR KIDS ARE ONLY A COUPLE OF MONTHS APART. THATS WHY I NEVER REVEALED WHO HIS FATHER IS NO ONE KNOWS BUT ME N GOD, HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HE HAS A SON! ME AND HER KIDS LOOK A LOT ALIKE BUT UM THE ONLY ONE THAT SEES THAT. ITS SOMETHING THAT I GOTTA LIVE WITH AND ONE DAY I AM GOIN TO HAVE TO TELL EVERYONE REGARDLESS IF IT DOES HURT THEIR FEELINGS!
Posted By: SO ANONYMOUS220 - Sunday, March 2nd 2008 @ 12:40pm
AM I A HOE
WELL I'M A PLUS SIZE FEMALE AND I HAVE ALWAYS HAD MEN TRY TO TALK TO ME BUT I  HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS NOW THAT LOVES ME FOR WHO I AM AND TREATS ME REAL GOOD BUT I CAN NOT SEEM TO STOP TALKING TO OTHER MEN HE DOESN'T KNOW CAUSE HE WORK REAL HARD TO BUY  ME EVERYTHING I WANT I DON'T EVEN WORK HE TAKE CARE OF ME AND MY DAUGHTER BUT WHILE HE WORKING I'M SPENDING TME WITH OTHER MEN I'M KINDA TORN I LOVE THE ATTENTION FROM MEN DO U THINK I HAVE A PROBLEM...
Posted By: anonymous - Wednesday, February 27th 2008 @ 5:09pm
I'm not the only one in DUVAL that has done this!
I'm not sure if I should say this but I do need to get this off my chest. I've been with my girl for about three years now and I love her very much. Now I don't know if she knows this but I've knocked off almost all of her friends, her best friend, four of her cousins, two aunties, and her mama. Hey I'm sorry but everybody in her family and that she's around is sexy ass hell. I had to do it.
Posted By: anonymous - Monday, February 25th 2008 @ 12:14pm
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
im scared of my dad
Posted By: anonymous - Tuesday, February 12th 2008 @ 1:01pm
BE ON ALERT LADIES!!!!!!!!1
ladies there is more we women have to worry about. not only HIV/AIDS, therre's something out there called HPV once you have it that's it you have it for life, be careful wrap it up also when it comes to oral sex make him/her "dental dam" it ladies and let's stop spreading and infecting our community this is getting way to serious love yourselves first and formost.
Posted By: anonymous - Sunday, February 10th 2008 @ 10:03am
IMMA DO ME
EVERYBODY IN FERNANDINA BEACH IS KINDA FIGURING OUT THAT IM INTO DUDES NOW. WHICH I AM SO NOW EVERYBODY RUNNING THEY MOUTH AND SPREADING RUMORS THAT THEY DONT KNOW NOTHING ABOUT YES IM BISEXUAL I LIKE DUDES AND GIRLS  SO YA'LL WANNA TALK FERNANDINA BEACH WELL IM BOUT TO GIVE YA'LL SOMETHING TO GOSSIP BOUT.... NOW RUN AND TELL THAT.
Posted By: VALENTINO - Tuesday, February 5th 2008 @ 8:27pm
IM IN LOVE

i met this guy when i went to the fair.we talked and every thing had sex a couple of times.but now im 13 and pregnant and i told him november 8th at 7:37 and he left november 8th at 8:01.so i got angry so to get him back i told my brother to *** his sister and now were both pregnant ha ha ha

Posted By: anonymous - Tuesday, February 5th 2008 @ 11:09am
love having sex with women
i'm married now i use to be in love with this chick but sh*t happens and i don't have sex with my husband no more like we use to i just want him to give me head if you know what i mean now i need help to save my husband from finding out da truth that some times i want to be with another female please help me
Posted By: anonymous - Tuesday, January 29th 2008 @ 8:41pm
Like a Virgin
I had a baby boy 6 months agoi without anyone knowing. I gave it up for adoption and no one knows. Not even my parents. They think I'm a virgin!!!!
Posted By: anonymous - Sunday, January 27th 2008 @ 11:24pm
Too Young and In Love
I met this boy and we started talkin and then we got into a serious relationship.......but as we keep talkin i started to fall in love wit him........but it turns out im 15 and hes 19.......Weve had sex and everthing so......PLEASE tell me what should i do??????
Posted By: anonymous - Saturday, January 26th 2008 @ 3:36pm
Living A Lie
I am seeing 2 guy's one is a real nice guy but his short if you know what I mean. The other is a nice guy too and but dosent want to make a commitment. I wish i could mess them together. maybe I should leave both of them a look for someone new. What do you think I should do.
Posted By: anonymous - Friday, January 25th 2008 @ 12:28pm
Love Stinks
I'm in Love with a Crack Head!
Posted By: Mr. Right - Friday, January 25th 2008 @ 10:49am
This is why I'm hot
My auntie house was on fire and while the firemaen was putting it out me and my boyfriend was having sex on the back of the firetruck. 
Posted By: bessie vansmiddlesworth - Wednesday, January 23rd 2008 @ 6:44pm
"She's A Very Freaky Girl"
I have had sex with more then 35 guys. I'm only twenty years old. I have a clamp bac ussy so none ever notice. (ALWAYS used condoms) I tell all the guys I sleep with that I had only 5 partners.
Posted By: anonymous - Friday, January 18th 2008 @ 3:07am
Folgers in your cup
I hate my job and the people I work wit, one day my boss pissed me off so bad that I went to the bathroom in the coffee. Everyone drank it up. That will showwm. DUUUUUUUVAL!
Posted By: Issac - Wednesday, January 16th 2008 @ 10:53pm
Sometime you gotta go so bad...
I once had to go to the bathroom so bad that I just went and it felt so good. That's pretty bad, but shtuff happens
Posted By: Gina - Wednesday, January 16th 2008 @ 10:47pm